No, success and winning do not always look the same. When you succeed, you reach your goals. When you win, you excede other people's expectations. When you try to succeed, the only person you are competing with is yourself. When you attempt to win, you are trying to beat others. You are content when you suceed, but when you win, you are at the top and (usually) have to try to remain there, leading to people who aren't content.
