Answer:
i agree, if they don't know about the label, then it doesn't really concern them.
if they do know, that's different, and you could really hurt them.
Explanation:
the fact that we label people by their behavior and characteristics can end up limiting our curiosity about someone. our interest can end in exploring a connection with someone because we think we know who they are and that may not be true. if you do get to know the person, then you can make judgements about them (even if they aren't nice ones.)
