this is a life question couldent find a subject that said life promblem any ways i got a question for yall

my best friend and i are in middle school and this girl was hitting/play punching a guy she liked(they were friends with benifits) and when she say that she slung the girl and told her to stop the girl dident do anything (she seemed shocked)then she went inside the buliding to wait fr the school bus and then she hears that the girl wants to fight her (so shes like ok les fight then) the next day the girl that she slung the day before kept talking cra-p to she talked cra-p right back then in the hallway when we were leaving lunch the girl grabed her shirt and started fighting her (my best friend started swinging back) i sat back for a lil bc i knew if i jumped in and she was handilning the fight on her own she would of been mad but after other ppl jumped in and thrw her t the ground i jumped in she got jumped and i went to DPA(were "bad" kids go) bc i sent some girl to the hospital,so in conclusion my friend got jumped and beat but(she was beating the other girl up untill her friends jumped in)

we are in middle school so ofc if you get beat in a fight pp, are going to laugh at you for it and my question is is it okto lose a fight why dopplnot like u after u lose a fight/